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Noha Beshir's avatar

You need oxygen to make gunpowder burn. OH.MY.GODDDDD 🤯

yes, it’s a mom- blog, but mothers g is hard and human and full of so much - pain, growth, exhaustion. All the heart-exploding stuff. I am so excited to read it.

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

And more importantly... it's a blog about how we re-mother ourselves, if we're lucky. Frankly, these kids are just pawns in my self-actualization :)

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Noha Beshir's avatar

Bwahahahahaaaaa yes. To quote slash translate from my father in law’s Arabic, ‘children raise us’

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

That's it, exactly.

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Dia Lupo's avatar

Yep. Yep yep yep this will be the writing that fills my cup with every passing season

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

Truly, thanks. And truly, same.

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Jenovia 🕸️'s avatar

“This is the work of a lifetime” THIS! This is the stuff. I love your new logo. It feels more personal, like I’m arriving at your doorstep and you’re welcoming me with open arms and that brilliant lit up heart is saying, “We’ve been waiting for you.”

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

Oh my gosh, I am so glad that's how it hit you. Just a warm, sulfur-scented embrace at my cyber doorstep.

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Jenovia 🕸️'s avatar

Catholic iconography is burned into my being as cozy and welcoming. Sacred hearts forever ❤️‍🔥

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Jenovia 🕸️'s avatar

Not that anything about your logo is Catholic btw!!! It’s just where my insides go when I see lines coming out of a heart.

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

Oh, it is TOTALLY Catholic. I can't shake that deep learning. Sacred hearts forever. Just... with some punk and sass.

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Elizabeth Grace Martinez's avatar

"now that he has no body, the love passes between us like liquid gold. " i have experienced the same thing since my father's passing. <3

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

Thank you, Elizabeth for letting me know! I can't wait to explore this feeling, especially now that I know I'm not alone :)

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Caroline's avatar

Boom boom boom 💥 Greatness is ahead!!!

I can’t FREAKING wait!

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

Girl, THANKS!

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Darby Bell's avatar

This feels…right. Idk how else to say it. But an exploding heart is an open heart with the power to heal many. Thank you Isabel for your bravery🧨❤️‍🔥🧨

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

It is easy to be brave when I feel so generously received. Thank YOU!

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Loving the new imagery! Powerful. Looking forward to reading your words as they unfold. Have a beautiful summer xxx

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

Thank you, Lauren. And also: PODCAST, yes please!

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Lauren Barber's avatar

Oh yes yes!!! It’s a bit on pause for the summer but planning a revival in the autumn. Xx

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

That sounds exactly right.

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Helene Van Manen's avatar

Rotten heart. I always think of what you do: compost the flowers that expire on your kitchen table. Composting heart. May we all be as free as you are!

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

Oh my goodness! Can you believe I've never made that connection, even though I marvel at the beauty of my wilting flowers every single day? I even love the way the big compost barrel smells, sour and filled with life, that edge where decomposition becomes something so rich and new.

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Helene Van Manen's avatar

We are all ultimately compost.

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David Roberts's avatar

Looking forward to those topics, Isabel. Happy Fourth!

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

Thank you, David! I so appreciate your support.

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Helene Demetriades's avatar

Isabel! I missed reading your beautiful pieces. They always intertwine poetry and pragmatism. Your feet are on the ground, your head among the stars. Our heart can go through so much. It can crack, splinter, and even explode, but it is filled with an extraordinary capacity for regeneration. It comes back stronger, it even strengthens in pain. Thank you for this text through which one senses your exultation, but also the experiences you are eager to share, through your wonderful writing.

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

HOORAY! So glad you are here. I am always so grateful for your reflections and insights. Glad to be on this journey of regeneration with you, even with the miles between us!

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Valerie Monroe's avatar

Isabel, looking forward excitedly to your aftermaths. xo

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

MY AFTERMATHS! Gosh I wish I'd said that myself.

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Eric Trules's avatar

Happy Fireworks 🤩🤩😍🤠

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

And to you, Eric!! Looking forward to more Santa Fe musings soon!

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Eric Trules's avatar

Thanks, Isabel!!!! Have u seen my other Substack: https://erictrules.substack.com ?

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Francine Benites's avatar

🔥🔥💣

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

👊🏼👊🏼👊🏼

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Momo's avatar

I can't wait Isabel, but I will enjoy the anticipation.

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

That's exactly how I feel!!! So glad to have you here.

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Beth Riungu's avatar

WOW! 💣💥 Count me IN!

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

Beth, THANK YOU! I'm so glad you're here with me!!

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Marc Typo's avatar

I am ready and excited! Especially ready for the dad story! (for obvious reasons!)

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Isabel Cowles Murphy's avatar

I hope I can do the man justice, although it's going to take the rest of my life's reflections to make him fully come alive.

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